Jan Higgins,
In answer to your three questions "No I am not away, No I am not keeping quiet, and no I am not scared of offending my friends"
Thank you for your assumption that I have friends on the forum, sadly misplaced assumption as I do not know any one on the forum apart from there jottings. Mind you some of there jottings leave me with a sense of relief and before any one comes back at me I know my own jottings p**S some people off, but there you go
that' life!!