I do feel for you Terry and I think you know me well enough by now, I hate to say this and alot of you will disagree with what I say.
After all of the pain that Terry and his wife have gone through, only the words....base ball bat and tit for tat come to mind.
IF I had have been in Terry's position I think I would be serving time by now.....
only my opinion.
Ian...
I do hope you get it sorted mate.