Hello Kath!
Thanks for the emails.
Having just checked, I realised the name is not Sharpe, but Speare. Sorry
Nellie Kate Speare is the lady you mention above who married Ernest Albert Byford, who came from Suffolk, but originates from Essex.
Nellie Speare has a parent called Speare and another parent called Tutthill. One of them is her father, the other is her mother. I couldn't determine which.
James William Randell is the shipwright from Sheerness who ran the Railway Inn in Dover, and his daughter Sarah Randell married Arthur Golder, and is my great grandmother.
Their daughter Ellen Golder married the son of the above Ernest Byford and Nellie Speare, and is my grandmother.