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I have worked hard in the past to help such people, but lets get a few things correct.
1; My childhood was not happy, but I won't go there as It's nowt to do with forum, but never the less factual.
2; Sometimes it's also about helping yourself.
I iike to explaimn by example in what have come acrooss in my life.
EXAMPLE;
Whilst on the county council I encouraged a senior yout club in another part of town, many of those attending didnt know how to communiucate nor would they do anything to help thremselves, most happy to sit back and wait for some one else to provifde.
This hasn't changed today, but I stuck by them, did what I could to help and encourage, but also point out, this is also about how can they help themselves and show others out there that they are interested and can do it.
Sadly to many do gooders wanted to give them evrything no matter how bad they were, with little in the way of pointing out errors of there ways.
It was up hill to say the least.
Also to show I do have compassion, The town and pier activities club which Gotrdon Cowan and I run, was set up to take youth off gthe street, many just hung around on streets, many had no social skills.
We gave them an insight into how things can be better, football training sessions boys and girls, put them in a registered league against realy good players, but overf time they learnt the socials skills.
Last season sawe one of the teams reach the semi finals!!!! bearing in mind many 3 years ago didnt know what a football was, thats a real challenge.
So what im saying is you do need to strart at a very early age pre school even , and get youth on track, but also parents need help(some)on how to parent,
So yes, a lot to do, but please don't think i havn't seen the darker side of life just because i hold a view.