Personally i think the one person we should all be listening to is David Hannent, he probably knows more about the pros and cons of this subject than anyone else on here.
Why keep knocking Sue and Nigel? They are as entitled as any other member on here to express an opinion. Sue was merely mentioning about her family because it was relevant to the subject being discussed.
I find it amazing that Mr Matcham can publish all that self congratulatory stuff about his past that some of us, me included, found totally boring yet Sue mentions one thing and gets slammed for it!
Sue keep on posting as you do please and Nigel - come back soon if you can.