Guest 674- Registered: 25 Jun 2008
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3 October 2009
22:0329775so now flip flops get the blame lol
Guest 653- Registered: 13 Mar 2008
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4 October 2009
07:4829787Keith, if you can't see that my posting about Sheli wasn't "tongue in cheek", well, I'm flabbergasted.
Roger
Guest 662- Registered: 18 Mar 2008
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5 October 2009
12:1029850Its ok Roger I got it!!!!
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5 October 2009
12:2729852I totally agree with Rogers view as per post 32.
Of course there has always been and always will be single mums. A fact of life.
Many bring their child up well and is often because of the support given by their family.You cannot cast a picture of failure to all single mums and full credit to those that succeed in bringing up a child under often difficult circumstances.
The area that is in question is the mum that deliberately seeks as many children with differnt fathers and is doing so to secure as much benefit and housing.
We do need to totally look at benefits etc as the real problem in Calais is the fact that the UK is seen as the Land of Honey with state hand outs and the perception that everyone has a job.
No doubt as a General Election looms this will be a major topic as more and more people who have worked and contributed taxes all their life are getting fed up with this mamby pandy state.
Guest 662- Registered: 18 Mar 2008
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5 October 2009
15:0929858Certain people should take a look at your posting Pat and see how to raise the issue, get your point across in an inoffensive manner !!!!!!!!!!
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5 October 2009
16:2829866Many thanks Sheli
Guest 656- Registered: 13 Mar 2008
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11 October 2009
16:2330201Just read an interesting article with regard to single teenage mothers, apparently the cot death charity, The Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths (FSID), has just launched the UK's first networking site for teenage parents to help give them a sense of being part of a 'club' as well as useful information, as sometimes young mothers feel very isolated. FSID decided to spend resources on this site after consultation with young parents across the country. We read much about the number of single teenage mothers in this country and no matter how we feel about this phenomenon, there's no doubt that these young girls and their sometimes vulnerable babies need all the help and support they can get. If you know a teenage mum you might like to pass on the web address
www.bubbalicicious .co.uk and encourage her to check it out.
howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
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11 October 2009
16:2830202colette
the home start scheme links up young mothers that need help with trained volunteers from the public,
it can just be someone to talk to, someone to help with the baby, the housework, the shopping etc.
most of the volunteers are women that have had a family, now grown up, so are fully qualified in understanding the problems and also offering solution.
Guest 660- Registered: 14 Mar 2008
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11 October 2009
20:2430213Sure start and Home start were started by the Goverment to help young families start in life,they do a good job and the one in Tower Hamlets at the Ark is thriving I understand,make the most of it because I understand they may reduce the money or even close if the Tories get in.
If you knew what I know,we would both be in trouble!
Guest 674- Registered: 25 Jun 2008
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11 October 2009
20:3130216John
its #already happening at tory county council reduced funding for home start
but thats politics
its all about what you believe in
Guest 660- Registered: 14 Mar 2008
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11 October 2009
21:0030223You could be next Keith get rid of the PCSO'S
If you knew what I know,we would both be in trouble!